Some people talk… some others listen… Some people say… and some others understand… Some people refer to others because they find their shelters in them… Some need protection... and others provide it for them… Sometimes, these others get misunderstood because of being too much caring and supportive… Their care becomes like a knife in their souls… It is usual that after a while they become ignored… abandoned and then… forgotten… Although they sometimes do all what they can and maybe give all what they have only to help and to be there when needed… they always get hurt just because they are Nice To Talk To... They do their best just to lose… Then they learn to live with the tears they are left with.
“I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that”, unknown author
Mena Mostafa
“I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that”, unknown author
Mena Mostafa
5 comments:
It's fair to accept the offered support in the meantime you try to avoid it. It's somehow expected. I wouldn't consider myself a good friend if I don't accept that my friends hurt me sometimes or let me down from time to time.
i just wrote a bug somewhere in a javascript alert thing, it kept popping message boxes. I wonder if it was really a nice idea to make browsers very nice to talk to like that; from an end user perspective, this could be a nightmare.
Sometimes people like to think they are hurt because they are being so nice... when actually even not so nice people get hurt....
You know what? Sometimes I feel that "nice" people get hurt more because they believe so much in "their" being nice that they believe "they" deserve more and consequently expect more....
If anyone think they're hurt because they're nice, simply stop being nice... not so hard I guess ;)
I have tried it with 2 friends. Actually one of them hated me the most because I used to offer help and support. My trials were really killing this person. The other felt so good with offering support and was so happy. On the other hand, for some reasons, I was not accepting any talk from someone although he is very good person but the environment where we met was soo bad although I can accept the same things from other whom I met in better environments. What I want to say is that the circumistces and the environment may affect how one can accept anything from other people even though those things are good things.
the question is: do you have someone in your life that could be considered Nice To Talk To?!!
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